Anonymous #1 19w

Saying you need to have sex with someone before considering a relationship is one of the dumbest takes I’ve ever seen, but a very real one, and typically used by men to get laid, and now some women have become compliant in that🥴

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Test driving to see if it’s what you want is what I have a problem with. Y’all are not reading my post and clearly haven’t dealt with men using that verbage to pressure women into sex

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Anonymous OP 19w

If using a metaphor PRESSURES you into sex you need to be in a Home

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Anonymous #6 19w

also it’s a metaphor. obviously i don’t think women are vehicles.

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Anonymous #6 19w

I like to think women can be vehicles. I'd prefer to be a Porsche like Sally but I wouldn't be opposed to being a Mater type truck

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Anonymous #1 19w

i would be a porsche 911 GT3 RS

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Anonymous #6 19w

I'd have to drop the RS cause I need that six speed manual 💔💔

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Omg articulated bus mentioned ❗️

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I don’t think y’all grew up around misogynistic mindsets, no hate to the OP who I don’t think meant it in that way, but that’s what that phrase is used for. The phrase refers to this idea that you couldn’t put effort into someone unless you consider the sex good, and that’s part of where their worth to you comes from.

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Anonymous OP 19w

You're too woke

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In terms of being sexually incompatible, which is the excuse the phrase uses, the idea that people in a healthy relationship might just have bad sex forever is dumb. If you live that person, or in the beginning just really like them, you can figure it out. Basic chemistry obviously needs to be there but that’s what entices sex in the first place, after that it’s largely communication, unless it’s like literally a pillow princess and a man who wants to be dominated who are very set on those ideas

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Then communication is more than capable of working those things out.

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It's like post woke idk 😭

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Anonymous OP 19w

I ain't reading allat

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Anonymous #1 19w

I’m being called both tradcath and too woke, ya’ll don’t realize this is a “good old boy” saying to pressure women into sex with little to no commitment. The idea that women are an option and you’re just looking the lot, rather than actually falling in love with an individual you would also like to have sex with.

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If you’re in a relationship, it’s most definitely your obligation to put in effort. That doesn’t mean changing someone, that’s not your job, but putting in effort is like the basis of relationships.

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Anonymous OP 19w

Humans only exist on this plane as sex organs, how's that

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Anonymous #1 19w

You realize like, literally all social pressure, comes from words yeah? And people do in fact get pressured into sex, especially women, when it’s equates to their worth in certain circumstances?

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Seeing if you’re into the same things, especially if it’s casual, is whatever. Saying you won’t be in a monogamous committed relationship until someone agrees to sleep with you is bad.

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Relationships aren’t based off of sex, and when they are, we have things like the modern day divorce rate, and before them, women just couldn’t get divorced. I think the fear of falling in love but having one of the worst sex lives ever is extremely exaggerated.

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EXACTLY what I said too

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Anonymous #6 19w

Porsche mentioned 😩😩 I’d do anything for a vintage 911

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Anonymous OP 19w

I'm nothing to this world but a hole 💔😔

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