Idk if this counts but I was 10 when I found out my grandpa wasn’t my blood grandpa but was technically my moms step father who adopted her and I cried for hours cus I loved him so much and I thought that meant he loved me less. Then I cried out of relief cus he has a lot of chronic and genetic illnesses that now I know can’t be passed down to me. Then I cried again out of guilt for thinking that LMAO