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Hey. My boyfriend said he doesn’t wanna have kids cus he’s scared i’m gonna love them more than him. Is this a red flag or is this something i should just comfort him about.
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Anonymous 17w

Red flag, the love a mother has for her husband and for her children are very strong but vastly different kinds of love so it’s not comparable

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Anonymous 17w

Major red flag, being in competition with your kids is weird behavior

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Anonymous 17w

bright red

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Anonymous 17w

Definitely a red flag, run. Fast.

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Anonymous 17w

Gonna be real id kill my husband rn if it meant saving my 27wk old pregnancy. Tbh as a mom I think our children should always be our #1 priority

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Anonymous 17w

damn what a dumb thing to say lmao

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Anonymous 17w

Huge red flag

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Anonymous 17w

I would suggest he should do therapy but that might not even help this man should never be in a relationship at all..

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Anonymous replying to -> virgosgroove 17w

Also the love isn’t comparable. I love my baby more than anything BUT it isn’t the same sort of love as I have for my husband. Ur bf is WEIRD

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