Anonymous #1 9h

Sorry

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Anonymous #1 9h

SO god damned 🔥HOTT🔥😩😩

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Anonymous #1 9h

No but for real if you’re not into watching that then tell him that you don’t consent too it. (I’m also assuming that you’re comfortably in an open relationship and are okay with him fucking a mutual work friend?)

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Anonymous #1 9h

im down but im just scared ill fall in love with the alpha male…

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Anonymous OP 9h

That’s a pretty gross way to view masculinity, and ethicless way base your attraction

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Anonymous #1 9h

thats the why my bf talks about their relationship… i mean its a simple game of who takes charge between the two of them. attraction isn’t a conscious choice and for me, and probably most women feel the same, that involves confidence and assertiveness. that’s also one natural part of masculinity, like it or not.

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Anonymous #1 9h

it’s literally insane to say someone can “base” their attraction on something. literally insane.

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Anonymous OP 7h

You’re viewing gay sex through a hetero lens and it’s kinda homophobic.

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Anonymous #1 7h

I understand attraction isn’t a conscious choice. But to say you’re scared you’ll fall in love with “the alpha male”. Implying that despite the relationship you’ve grown with your partner, if you watch him bottom for someone, you would fall in love with whoever’s topping him.

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Anonymous #1 7h

You conflate confidence, assertiveness, and taking charge and then they are equated to topping, these are equated to masculinity too, for you.

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Anonymous #1 7h

You view masculinity and femininity as the antithesis to each other. If confidence, assertiveness, taking charge, topping, and masculinity are one side, diffidence, submitting, bottoming, and femininity are the other side. Which is wrong and sexist

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Anonymous #1 7h

If you cared about your partner and you viewed both him and this coworker as masculine (something you require for attraction) you should still be attracted to your partner enough that you wouldn’t fall in love with the coworker topping him

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Anonymous #1 7h

You thought of him bottoming, receiving penetration like a woman usually does during sex, and then conflated him with diffidence, submitting, and femininity so much so you can now no longer view him with the traits you valued, masculine and whatnot.

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Anonymous #1 7h

I assume you base your attraction in masculinity, no? And I feel sorry for this man for if he bottoms he becomes not masculine enough for you, because you’re homophobic and sexist.

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