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If your man is flirting/clearly has a crush on me, and I reciprocate not knowing a thing about you because he didn't say he had a girlfriend, don't be mad at me, be mad at YOUR MAN. That's not my fault even a little bit. Your man's a cheater.
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Anonymous 5w

“She didn’t break into that house. Someone opened the door and let her in.”

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Anonymous 5w

But if you continue flirting after you find out then I’m going to be on your a$$

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Anonymous 5w

girls that act like that actually suck

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Anonymous 5w

Girls that get mad at other girls for “taking their man” when there was no visible clue their man had a gf promote the patriarchy 🫶🏻

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Anonymous 5w

Many girls, though, enjoy the thrill about being spontaneous. Some like the no strings attached as it’s just a fuck.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

I literally stopped all contact with him and went out of my way to get moved to another department at work. Which I didn't have to and shouldn't have had to do.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

hot take but it’s literally not the girls responsibility to stop unless the man is like feeling harassed. that’s on ur man not on her

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

Its on both but the majority of the responsibility falls on the guy. But why would u want to be part of that anyways

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

why would you knowingly flirt with a cheater tho 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 5w

I mean it’s a weird choice imo but it’s a personal thing. I wouldn’t do it but like if someone “stole” my man I would say thank u. If he wants to cheat he will and I would be glad to lose someone who respected me that little. she can have him type thing yk?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

I still think it’s heinous to knowingly take part in something like that. Being an accessory to cheating - fully aware of what’s happening - is still cruel. I’d never want to be friends with someone who was willing to do that. That said, the cheating boyfriend will *always* be the common denominator. OP, I’m so sorry you got dragged into this. 😭 I suspect folks would rather criticize a woman who knew nothing than hold accountable a man who deliberately chose to cheat.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

this convo makes me glad I’ve chosen not to date, holy

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 5w

No one says you can’t have a fwb, but if you find out your fwb is in a committed relationship, I personally think you should stop sleeping with that person out of respect for the relationship, and out of your own safety. If they’re sleeping with you in a relationship, they’re more than likely sleeping with them too, and STDs are real

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

It’s on him that he’s a cheater, I also do think it’s wrong to knowingly take part in someone cheating

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 5w

There are also many men who enjoy that who aren’t cheating on their partners who you can have that with!

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 5w

This is definitely a man

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