
Had to give him extensive examples on how my life has markedly improved and how much I have grown as a person thanks to his influence. We're healing together, Im not upset with him, I just wanna get this off my chest. I will happily answer any questions and welcome thoughts and opinions.
Someone dmed me asking why he was tryna leave: He was under the impression that he's bad for me, and that I deserve better. I told him how much better my life has been getting with him in it and how he makes me feel loved like no one ever before. It took me too long to find this perfect-for-me kind of love, and yea it doesnt meet all the expectations I used to have, but desires change. And I want *him*.
Throughout the conversation I had to remind him how a relationship means us vs the problem, how we love each other, and how love means sacrifice on BOTH sides (he doesnt want me to sacrifice, but he will do anything to make me happy - I told him I am not going to be a hypocrite like that).