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No one talks about the guilt of wanting to leave someone but knowing that they will not be okay if you do.
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Anonymous 14w

Oof girl I feel you

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Anonymous 14w

This happened to me I was in my first relationship ever during senior year of high school. I really liked him and he really liked me but idk what happened, a mix of incompatible personality + interests I guess, I just sorta fell out of love with him. I couldn’t even admit to myself at first because, I was like, “no, I love him!” But I really just wasn’t attracted to him anymore. But I just didn’t do anything until we’ve been dating for almost a year. We even went on a trip abroad together, right

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Anonymous 14w

i was so stressed about this he ended up just saying ok and walking away

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 14w

- right after the trip I called and broke up (yes I did it over call and yes I feel rly bad about it but I was so stressed and had absolutely no fucking idea how to get out) I even made up some lousy a** excuse about how I’m not sure I’m the marriage / family / kids type (to be fair he did talk a bit often about future family plans that is super sweat yeah but I couldn’t help getting the ick sometimes )… yeah anyways long story short, I get what you’re going through. Sooner you end it, t

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 14w

The easier it’s gonna be for the both of you. Good luck, you got this! Just be kind, try to be as honest as you can while sparing the most hurtful stuff if possible. I know it’s awful sending love ur way ❤️‍🩹

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