Anonymous #2 9w

I put the emojis so it didn’t come off rude!

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Anonymous #2 9w

money is an issue rn, im scared my parents will find out if the bill comes

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Anonymous OP 9w

Hold on I’ll search for you how planned parenthood works. I don’t know much about it but I’ve heard their usually discreet

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Anonymous #2 9w

This is what Google said but if you have any concern about the one near you maybe call and ask them about it

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Anonymous #2 9w

thank you so much for going out of your way to look for me! I really appreciate your kindness 🩷😭

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Anonymous OP 9w

Of course!!! Everyone needs someone to lean on 🫶🏽 I hope everything goes well.

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Anonymous #3 9w

What state are in? I’m the 6 week rule can be different

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Anonymous #3 9w

IL! (Thank goodness)

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Anonymous OP 9w

Oj good glad it’s accessible. Yes if you head to the page there’s options for payment methods https://www.plannedparenthood.org/planned-parenthood-illinois/patient-resources/health-insurance

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Anonymous #3 9w

Ok*

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Anonymous #3 9w

thank you! 🩷🩷

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Anonymous gingersnap69 9w

you have no idea 😭 it’s a must for now on

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Anonymous #5 9w

we’re in this together

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Anonymous #3 9w

the fact that you said “glad it’s accessible” makes me so sad 🥲 the things going on in this country bring me genuine sadness and worry for so many people

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Anonymous #7 9w

He’s very anti abortion. :( if I tell him I don’t think I would be safe

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Anonymous mother_russia 9w

I do. He and I literally just broke up a few days ago however bc he’s not really the greatest person.

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Anonymous #8 9w

thank you so much 🩷 I just set up an appointment so hopefully they can give me more choices and help me

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Anonymous OP 9w

I’m sorry that’s really difficult. I would recommend finding a friend or someone who can be your buddy through this process and talk through your options with just because it’s quite a heavy thing, and especially if you get the pill because being alone while that happens can be quite scary. Be gentle with yourself, get yourself some comfort food and a warm spot to relax with maybe your favorite movie or something, and you can look at the places around you that can help for any choice you make.

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Anonymous mother_russia 9w

thank you :( im gonna do my best to

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Anonymous OP 9w

He’s anti abortion yet wasn’t being careful?? I hate men like that. Definitely don’t tell him, I’m so sorry your in this position

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Anonymous OP 9w

maybe tell him it’s for something else?

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Anonymous OP 9w

like nails or hair or to get an iud

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Anonymous #7 9w

wait till I say this: we broke up yesterday bc I found out he cheated on me!

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Anonymous mother_russia 9w

everything will be okay. im no longer with him, but i am very upset about the situation

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Anonymous OP 9w

Oh wow! That’s awful! You might want a quick std test too then 😭

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Anonymous OP 9w

They should help you! Do what’s best for you. I’m 18 and in college and recently found out myself. It was really scary and I’m fortunate that my boyfriend is supporting me but finding where to even start was the hardest. If you feel judged or pressure in anyway, I would suggest finding someone else. Everyone has their beliefs but the best providers keep there beliefs to themselves and give you the options and knowledge and facts to back that up. I hope your journey goes well and feel free to DM

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Anonymous #8 9w

thank you thank you thank you 🥹🩷 I am still scared about the beliefs part

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Anonymous mother_russia 9w

I will lose my mind 😭💀

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Anonymous OP 9w

Dont let that be your main focus or worry. Try to just make a list of questions such as financial aid or help, the billing, any resources for either choice, the effect on the body for either choice. Whatever comes to mind.

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Anonymous OP 9w

Usually during the pee test they should do. They test for common STDs

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