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I’ve kinda been through a rough few months bc of this one guy, and I have found myself confused abt my feelings towards him. For awhile i genuinely liked him until a bunch of red flags popped up. Abt a week ago he asked me to be his gf and I said yes. pt1
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Anonymous 9w

Just be upfront about it and tell him how you feel. Because I promise you those red flags won’t go away. And you’ll just hurt yourself staying in that relationship. The toughest part is telling him, but after that it gets easier.

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Anonymous 9w

but now im really regretting that choice bc i realized he is not someone i want to be in a relationship with. how do i end things with him without more problems occurring?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

I really hope so. I tried telling him once but then he started crying and I pretty much got manipulated into forgiving him. And stayed bc I was afraid abt what would happen if I didn’t bc I made myself get attached to him even tho I know he’s unhealthy for me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

I’ve been in that situation I was with a guy that was so unhealthy for me. He did unspeakable things to me and I got so depressed, I started cutting and honestly I just wanted to die. But once I ended things with him, a week later, I met my now boyfriend, and we have been together for four years and he is the best thing that’s ever happened to me. It’s hard to make the first move to end things and stick with it but I know once I did that it felt like I could breathe again.

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