Personally I’m not sure. I definitely this it’s a lesser evil though because at least smut doesn’t profit off of sex trafficking.
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Anonymous15w
lowkey valid point has the same affect on your mental
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Anonymous15w
ya bf mad bc he knows he can’t compete with men written by women
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Anonymous15w
My bf said the same thing and now he calls them my porn books 🤷🏼♀️
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Anonymous15w
also depends on how crazy / graphic the book is. there r sex scenes in movies…
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Anonymous15w
my EX said that too (he had a porn addiction so..)
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Anonymous15w
i think it is similar because you’re imaging strangers having sex but you’re not actually seeing it so it is different
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Anonymous#115w
But I feel like real life is worse because it’s real people you’re lusting over, and most smutty books have actual storylines
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Anonymouseepycar15w
Exactly, and there’s no way you could ever meet a book character, or compare your s/o to a fictional person
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AnonymousOP15w
For the most part I agree. I just find that personally, I get disappointed by reality after reading smut. But I think that could be typical of reading in general as I remember being envious of Hogwarts when reading Harry Potter as a child.
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AnonymousOP15w
But you’re comparing content while he is comparing effect. They both have the same effect, you just prefer one over the other