I PATCHED IT!! i had to work and begin consciously reciprocating the energy. they were getting distant because i was getting distant. acknowledge when you feel yourself drifting and remember that sometimes it IS you and not them!!
realizing i have avoidant attachment style and that I’ve literally isolated or pushed from like a million potential relationships and it all came from this video about a cat who’d only cuddle if it was her idea. i’m literally going to start hollering.