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I know my value as a woman isn’t tired to sex or relationships but sometimes I feel less desirable or inferior to other women bc they have way more experience than I do in these areas. Trying to work on it though it’s just hard
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Anonymous 4d

i get it queen keep ur head up

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Anonymous 4d

Keep in mind: men will still desire and seek the "experienced woman" giving her attention, dates, sleep with her, with the mindset of "she'll be fun for a few weeks, then l'Il drop her and move on". These men are typically younger and immature. You don’t want to be desired by this type of man. The “experienced woman” faces increased difficulty finding a suitable partner as time goes on. The whole “I’ll settle down when I want marriage” doesn’t work in reality & standards are lowered

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Anonymous 4d

Hey, I’m a 25 year old guy. Felt like I needed to share this with you. Take it w a grain of salt: Men do not care if you can do experienced tricks in bed. Reason: Men know what feels good to themselves, we are able & want to guide/teach the woman how to do things that feel good. 0 experience is needed for the woman. When a man is considering a long term partner/potential wife, being “very experienced woman” is a big negative. Reason: Unsure if you want me to dive into that rn.

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Anonymous 4d

Dm

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Anonymous 2d

i thought men nowadays want women that are virgins?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4d

My advice: Seek the desire of a man who loves you for who you are and wants to be with you long term. (if you’re Christian, seek a godly man. I cannot stress this enough) Date for marriage, not for fun. Make him wait for sex, true colors will show. If he thinks she has wife potential, he will wait a long long time. I hope I was able to provide something useful in all that. Take care, keep you’re head up

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2d

I mean a lot of men say they do but it’s moreso because they either fetishize virgins or think that since they lack experience they can just do whatever they want in the bedroom regardless of the women they’re having sex with is actually having a fun or safe time

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2d

Tbh I think sometimes it turns guys off bc they realize because inexperienced in the bedroom they actually have to put in work to teach her because sex can be a learning curve, even for people who’ve done it before. Thats just my two cents

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