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idk where else to go to for some venting. i want to tell someone about these feelings that im having but i don’t want to be judged and labeled as selfish and clingy. my boyfriend is on a vacation visiting some old friends from college and i can’t help-
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Anonymous 14w

you’re not wrong for feeling that type of way, something to help me cope when my boyfriend is busy is playing a game on my ipad or computer, building legos, reading, or coloring! i think you just have to find something that interests you in order to keep your mind a little busy

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Anonymous 14w

-but feel lonely and sad. it doesn’t help that my best friend is also on vacation on a cruise. i’m really happy that he gets to see his friends again after so long but, i miss our somewhat nightly routine of calling each other before bed. rn he’s out in the city and partying with his friends and here i am at home feeling so lonely

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Anonymous 14w

i don’t want to constantly text him either. i’m a 21 year old adult that should be emotionally mature and give him space especially when he’s seeing friends. idk this is new to me and i hate myself for having these feelings. it doesn’t help that he’s 5 years older than me. i don’t want him thinking he made a mistake dating someone younger that still has these immature feelings. any advice?

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