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my bf is leaving for the army in 2.5 weeks and classes just started again, pls give me advice on how to handle this bc i feel like im gonna dig myself into a hole out of sadness
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Anonymous 3w

people that love themselves don’t date cops or people in the military

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Anonymous 3w

Ngl you need to pull urself together. That man could cheat on u and you’d never find out. Do not fail any of your classes. That degree is ur future, that man may not be

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Anonymous 3w

If you love him I’d stay but if he’s not worth then leave but it’s all on you

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Anonymous 3w

can I ask for your opinion, my bf and I share iMessage locations and from time to time it will glitch and I can't see his location, so I brought it up to him and asked hey can I have your life 360 and this was his excuse, no it stresses me out that I can see your driving speed, then it was, " it feels too invasive " and how he if he had anything to hide he wouldn't be showing me his regular find my location with me, and then he went to the fact that how HES going to turn

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Anonymous 3w

- into a stalker or something and says he won't share his location mind you he's going to a college 1 hr away so idk how to think

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Anonymous 3w

How long have yall been together?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

i’m 100% staying and we will be able to write letters and i’ll see him when he comes home for breaks but im just gonna struggle to adjust to his absence even if it’s just temporary

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

i mean personally i wouldn’t read too much into it because if you trust him things like this shouldn’t be an issue, me and my man have never had our locos on and i’ve never been like upset about that. don’t sweat the small things like that unless you’ve had a previous reason not to believe he’s being honest about his whereabouts

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

thanks for your input

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