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How do guys in the US see muslim girls wearing hijab? Especially if they're chill and fun to be around, I feel especially guys always hesitate to start a conversation or even come any close even if they like the girl and she's pretty.
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Anonymous 6d

I definitely feel like they don’t want to approach out of respect. Like they for some reason have a preconceived notion that someone with a hijab doesn’t want to be approached by the opposite gender

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Anonymous 6d

I mean, one can assume that approaching for the purposes of “you’re pretty, can I get your number” wouldn’t be received well.

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Anonymous 6d

makes it clear they’re only interested in muslims guys

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Anonymous 6d

As other people hinted at we generally assume you want a Muslim guy

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Anonymous 6d

They’re always pretty but I feel intimidated with culture difference like they won’t like me

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Anonymous 6d

That you’re not a match value wise so there’s no point in talking to you. If you’re so conservative that you cover your hair, you’re likely conservative in other areas as well, and the average American guy isn’t looking for that. & there’s a difference between knowing someone’s a religious mismatch first thing and getting to know them then finding out. 2nd option means you already like them a bit so ur more likely to find a solution vs the 1st option where u can avoid the issue completely.

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Anonymous 5d

Are y’all even allowed to have male friends?

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Anonymous 6d

At the risk of sounding like I'm virtue signaling, I just see it as humans talking to humans. If I'm interested in them, I'll approach. If they're not, then I back off, but maybe I'll make a friend or enjoy a nice conversation. I feel it's no different than talking to anyone else. There should be cultural sensitivity in conversation no matter what culture they are from. It's more obvious for people in hijabs, but I'm trying to get better at thinking before speaking with everyone

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6d

I don’t think that notion is particularly wrong

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6d

That's sad. Cos we sometimes just want friends. I find it super hard to find people even to hang out with here. People hesitate to talk to us even just to know us.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6d

Hey I meant that in terms of approaching with the intention to date. I do hang out with a girl who exclusively wears hijab. Try joining some school clubs

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 6d

The muslim community on campus is so small. There's only two hijabis on campus including me. It's tough especially if I'm international.

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 5d

The average American guy isn’t looking for a conservative partner? Aren’t most of yall conservative?

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