Well my quitting was a little different I almost died in the ICU and was forced to go cold turkey when I was sent to a mental place. It was rough I did relapse. But I wrote small notes everywhere. I keep one in my wallet “THINK about your partner, cat, all the things you care about. Try not to drink please” I look at the card every single day. Cravings do exist so talk to your doctor and they can prescribe something to help with that too. It’s truly mind of matter 💕 day by day
When you do over drink you can very swollen in the stomach and face. When I was drinking I wasn’t eating enough so I lost a lot a weight. When I finally stopped I felt better down the road. You’ll feel shitty the first week or month because you’re taking something away from your body when you have a dependency.
I communicated to my friends that I have stopped drinking and they understood because they saw me almost die from it. Even though they drank a lot they wanted what’s best for me. In the early stages they didn’t drink around me (helped a lot) Real friends when they know wont peer pressure you!
With family.. that can be tough because you know parents don’t understand everything. Mine said “Ohhh you never had a real drinking problem” they didn’t want to accept it. So I stopped seeing them and when I got more self trust I went to visit I was able to say no do not make me a drink. Or I pushed away the glass/ gave it to someone very quick so I wouldn’t smell it. But families are different they can support the hell out of you or mine for example don’t give a shit and try to ruin you.
I don’t drink so this might not really help anyone much because it’s not the same sort of psychological thing, but my mom used to smoke a lot, and she replaced that habit by chewing gum. So maybe try to get your brain to relate to chewing gum every time you want to drink alcohol! Or maybe some kind of other aspect to replace alcohol consumption.
That too but it can mentally be trying to run away from pain/trauma mentally or physically. When I was drinking I was able to get away from reality because I was very depressed and didn’t care for anything at all. I got hooked on the feeling and everyday I needed that get away. If any of you turn to drinking or any type of addiction because you are in pain any form you have to start with that problem. When you quit it won’t fix everything and depression can still be there 💕