My dad doesnt really care and he actually wants to see everyone in the family hit the gym but my mom consistently harasses me about my gains telling me that my arms are too big and I need to stop because im “hurting” myself and she tries to attribute pain or sickness i get to being due to the gym. Mentally taxing. (I’m a man)
I grew up in the church and right now I’m expected to be married and pooping out babies, not being in the gym teaching my boyfriend how to work out. My dad always said how he expected me to be the most like him, then I hit puberty and became the most like him and now he wants very little to do with me 👍
We are in this strange time period where in order to “honor your father and mother” you can regard their advice but recognize they’ve been misled themselves so long, especially on health/diet related things. They will eventually come around. It’s a very “show em don’t tell em” type of thing.