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Should I ask out a gym guy? I’m a girl, I think like some of the guys at my gym are my type, taller than me, good build, dark hair, handsome (at least to me). tbh I don’t need to but I think it could be fun? Should I?
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Anonymous 1d

Gonna be so fr, the worst that can happen is they say no or that they’re not interested, it’s way worse if you spend your time thinking about what could’ve been rather than what was :)

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Anonymous 1d

Also to preface I’ve hit my gym goals over the year and now I think I might be secure and stable enough to try without getting too hurt.🥺

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Anonymous 1d

Or is it a bad idea😬…

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Anonymous 1d

Yea go for it, u miss 100% of the shots u dont take

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Anonymous 1d

But I do agree that it could get worse but what are the chances of some bullshit happening again. The last time I think I even tried to do dating the guy came up to me and he was in a long term relationship so… maybe this time it won’t be worse then that 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> anakingymwalker 1d

encouraging but lets not lie and say thats the WORSE

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

it can get FAR FAR worse

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

How so?

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Anonymous replying to -> anakingymwalker 1d

its lowkey more like the worse a NICE person can say a no

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

they can rlly sit there and deconstruct u

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

What does that even mean😭

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Anonymous replying to -> anakingymwalker 1d

they can laugh in ur face, they can really fry u(insult wise), they can it make a big deal and embarrass, a lot of psychological warfare 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Sometimes maybe even physical but doubt theyd go that far cuz jail exist

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

This sounds like projection ngl, I’ve never met a single guy in the gym in the 6 years I’ve been going that wants to stand out, much less make a scene in front of the gym

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Anonymous replying to -> anakingymwalker 1d

im saying this cuz ive met ppl like that, at my old planet fitness there was sum REAL disrespectful ppl 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

ofc its not probable but lets not say the WORSE that can happen is no

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

was just tryna get that across without fear mongering

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Oh… that’s planet fitness tho😬

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

fair 😂

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Nah you’re real for that

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Ma’am I’m gonna be fr, this is personally speaking, if a girl came up to me at the gym and asked me out, even if I wasn’t interested I’d feel on top of the world, guys don’t get a lot of compliments today, so the worst thing you’re gonna do is make him feel better about himself, even if he says no :)

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Yea shoot to shoot go BIG OR GO HOME

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Anonymous replying to -> anakingymwalker 1d

That’s what I’m worried about… cause what if his ego grows because of it and he turns out to be a liar, an asshole, or just like we don’t vibe… there’s a lot at stake and i don’t wanna mess up plus im shy and try to be nice but what if that’s mistaken for flirting…

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Or what if I end up catching feelings and like… actually start to like him and then he says we don’t vibe🥺

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

I mean to be fair, those are the kinda risks you have to take if you want to find something real

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Anonymous replying to -> anakingymwalker 1d

Valid… I’m gonna go for it.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Proud of u ma’am :)

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