If you want to gain strength lift heavy not ego lift but keep it to 3-6 reps it should feel hard ask for a spot better safe then sorry + all my gym bros love talking im sure the guys at your gym will too. For loosing the fat don’t hate me but cardo i personally enjoy running in Zone 2, if you don’t know what that is look it up there’s a lot of info on it. There’s also a lot of other cardio options I would advise you stay away from the elliptical. You’re going to need to be in a calorie deficit.
So you’re going to be hungry and your body will start to eat the fat. Again look up calorie calculator! And it will tell you what you need to be at to loose weight. Also stay away from greasy foods and fast food these will kill your gains. Idc what people say eating dirty makes your progress look dirty.
I wake up early, skip breakfast, and head to work. For lunch, I eat eggs, an iced oat latte, rice, beans, chicken, and a salad. I used to grab a pastry, but I don’t do that anymore. When I come home, I’m exhausted and just want to crash for the night, then I repeat the cycle the next day. Some days I walk up and down stairs 45 times
Don’t skip breakfast!!! It is very essential at the very least eat a fruit quick and simple. It doesn’t have to be some extravagant meal but it helps your metabolism. So don’t skip. And don’t put yourself in a 1000 caloric deficit that’s ridiculous. Do like a 200-600 deficit and make sure you drink water.