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Okay question. Gay 19 M here. I don’t stare at guys in the gym because i’m crushing or fanning over them. I look because 99.99% of the time I’m wishing that I looked like they did. But also, how can I tell if someone else is gay or not? Some guys are 1/?
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Anonymous 1d

2/2 clearly gay but most are not at all. Im not over flamboyant and fairly straight passing. I want a gym boyfriend so bad but where do I even look for them. Also i’m way to scared to even make the first move or conversation with anyone

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Anonymous 1d

Most guys in the gym do it for girls but I have heard of a lot of serious bodybuilders being gay. However, for your own safety, I wouldn’t suggest shooting your shot at a random guy.

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Anonymous 1d

Best to find the gym bf on dating apps or elsewhere (or start dating then get them addicted after). At my gym there's a guy who wears rainbow reads and sports bras, I'm not that flamboyant but thats one option to making it clear to those around you. More risky to hit on ppl if you're not in a big city too tho

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