Anonymous OP 14w

And to follow up the man IS wrong for the lust, and is the primary person who is in the wrong. Its not the woman’s “fault,” but she is definitely doing something morally wrong

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I’m a man. If you can’t control your lust then you either need to seek professional help, or just not go outside. It’s no one else’s problem that you can’t control yourself.

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Anonymous #2 14w

Good for you if thats true, but 90% of men who can control it in public are only that way because they use porn as an outlet, which is equally wrong

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Anonymous #1 14w

Good god we’ve got a basement dweller here. Yeah no, most men can control it in public because they’re not sexual degenerates who are capable of looking at women as people, not sex objects. What is wrong with you?

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Anonymous #1 14w

And even if that were true, you’re dodging all accountability by placing the blame on the women, and not the men who refuse to work on themselves and keep their urges in check.

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Anonymous #2 14w

All insults, no logic. 60% of men age 18 to 30 watch porn. 60% of young men use porn as an outlet (which is morally wrong as well) and there is still a ton of overlap of men whk get tempted by these women and watch porn anyway. Clearly youre not even reading my comments bc ive said outright that women are NOT to blame for mens lust, but to knowingly draw a significant portion of them into it is wrong

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Anonymous #1 14w

Women are living their lives and minding their business. You do not get to tell them what to wear because men can’t control themselves. It’s not their problem.

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Anonymous #2 14w

Its like you didnt even read me analogy lol. “You don’t get to tell me to not order a beer when sitting across the table from an alcoholic.” Legally you can do whatever you want. But it is morally wrong to knowingly and unnecessarily tempt a person to do an evil thing.

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Anonymous #1 14w

That’s the worst analogy i’ve ever heard tbh. So nobody should be allowed to drink alcohol in a restaurant because there could be men there that struggle with alcoholism.

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Anonymous #2 14w

No, theres a line that can be placed. Same reason why women shouldnt walk around wearing burkas all the time. Ask an alcoholic, theyll say the line of temptation is generally when alcohol is right in front of them. Ask a man who struggles with lust where the line is, theyll almost always say it is somwehere in between a normal outfit and what we’re talking about

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Anonymous #1 14w

If that man can’t handle gym wear in a fucking gym, then he shouldn’t be in a gym. It’s normal gym attire, if that’s too sexual for you, leave.

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Anonymous #1 14w

As another man, you’re probably spending too much time on the internet dude. Like yeah we get it women are fucking hot but like we can just acknowledge that and move on with our lives and workouts. For me I believe it is a choice to sexualize women. I will not sexualise a woman unless she and I both want that to happen. A gym is not the place where that happens, it’s a place of self improvement and focus.

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Anonymous #3 14w

Like we gotta stop seeing each other as men/women and just realize that we are all simply people working out in the same room. Idk why it has to get more complicated than that when nothing is really happening.

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Anonymous #1 14w

And let’s put it this way. If a man is an alcoholic, is it reasonable for him to go to a bar and demand that nobody drinks, or should he just not go to the bar? If a man can’t handle seeing women in gym clothing, should he demand women don’t wear gym clothing, or should he just not go to the gym? Seems like a pretty simple solution to me.

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Anonymous #1 14w

You are allowing yourself AND OTHERS to be perverted, aggressive, and scary to women by excusing this behavior so vehemently

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