Unfortunately, a lot of people would rather live with the cope that their problems aren’t in their control, than have to look themselves in the eye and recognize that it is their fault that they haven’t achieved their goals. It’s a fear of accountability and comfort in the excuses they make.
It pisses me off tbh, and I HATE how our culture has made it acceptable to make excuses for everyone. It truly is not that much work to reach your health goals. Most of my healthy habits don’t cost me any extra time or money. Drinking water instead of soda, having a consistent bedtime, eating proper servings, leaving the junk food on the shelf at the store, etc. There’s no excuse for anyone to not be doing the little things.