Anonymous #5 16h

Explain im lost

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Anonymous #13 15h

Swap the genders in the original post. It’s getting at that if this same post were made about horny men swiping into women’s dms, the post wouldn’t be this big. It’s accepted because it’s sympathizing with men, even when it’s a non issue

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Anonymous #5 15h

Bro why am I getting downvoted 😭 girls sliding in men’s DMs is not a problem. The problem is men lurking on this community and making women uncomfortable for posting their progress

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Anonymous #5 14h

I mean I don’t think it’s black and white like that…women can sexualize men just as much as men can. Women are just more often vocal about it. I think it’s a problem for everyone, but in reality people just need to block and ignore

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Anonymous #15 14h

Yes, anyone can be sexualized, but let’s not pretend it’s 50/50. Any girl who posts any progress pictures, particularly if it shows their breasts legs or butt, will be flooded with DMs and comments of people trying to slide and sexualizing, when it’s literally their progress photos. It’s a problem on every social media where men (especially on anonymous apps like this) will take advantage of women to whatever extent they’re allowed. This same problem doesn’t exist for men. It just doesn’t

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Anonymous #5 14h

I ain’t reading allat

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Anonymous #5 13h

You ain’t a man tho?? You don’t know the experience of men with it

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Anonymous #16 13h

I’m literally a man lmao. Not that hard to recognize shitty parts of being a women online. Half of the comments on this post were “man sure wish I had that problem.” I have no doubt men get sexualized unfairly. Performers will get groped on stage. I had a minor stalking incident a few years ago. But it’s not even close to what women experience

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Anonymous #5 13h

You must not be a very attractive man

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Anonymous #5 12h

If you’re an attractive man who posts in this community, I promise you it’s just as bad

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Anonymous #19 12h

Especially when you got gay ppl hitting u up when you’re straight who asks for that 😭

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Anonymous OP 12h

I’ve had gay ppl say they’d pay me for more gym pics 😭like bro I did not ask for that at all

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Anonymous #19 12h

I’d bet $1000 that every out-of-line DM was from gay men and not women

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Anonymous #5 12h

Trying to find any other possible reason besides a woman in a man’s dm because that’s so hard to grasp for you 😭

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Anonymous OP 12h

I don’t doubt they slide in and want to pull. I just don’t believe they’re overtly sexual off the jump. Gay and straight men are way more likely to be. Feel free to send screenshots and I’ll admit if I’m wrong

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Anonymous #5 12h

Have you ever tried running background checks on these people who leave these comments? You’d be surprised how many bots are on Instagram

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Anonymous #19 12h

Again, actually investigate who these “people” are. Unless these are people, you actually know the likelihood is that the commenters are bots.

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Anonymous #21 12h

They aren’t bots😭I’ve had so many experiences how are u gonna tell me what experiences I’ve had, when u hit the top post of the day in the community those things just come naturally

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Anonymous #19 12h

I can’t believe I hit top post though that’s kinda neat 🤠

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Anonymous OP 12h

I was talking about myself 😂but congrats to u too bro you got hella upvotes

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Anonymous #19 12h

Thanks 😃

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Anonymous #5 7h

No I agree, it’s definitely not 50/50 and as a woman I can attest to that. I just don’t want it getting overlooked that men can be victims of it too

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