
Most of us do not approach at the gym because we don’t want to be seen as a creeper. Conversely, a woman will almost never be seen as creepy for approaching a guy at the gym so you may be better off initiating in that setting so they know it’s all good. I had this girl keep asking me for help getting the fixed barbell off of her shoulders one day which turned into gym buddies and a few dates but I never would have talked to her first even after the staring catches