Anonymous #4 13w

I started buying my own food cause my parents say the healthy food I want is too expensive and no one else will eat it. But then once I buy it and tell my family not to touch it cause it’s mine they will still eat it anyway

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Anonymous OP 13w

“Too expensive” bitch my grocery budget at school is $40 a week and I eat varied meals that taste great. There’s like 90 different things you can make with chicken, rice, and seasoning if you have an ounce of creativity. They did the same thing to me until i started crashing out when my shit got touched.

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Anonymous #4 13w

Like you can eat anything but I’m limited to the food I can eat. But if I’m upset that they can’t keep their paws off some food they I’m unreasonable. Like you just ate the food that I planned to eat for the whole week in one sitting

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Anonymous OP 13w

I seriously cannot wait for school to be back. I’ve never made better gains than I do in school because I don’t have a house full of people breathing down my neck and directly affecting what I can do. I’m not even asking for a lot, just don’t eat my shit, and I need 2 hours, 4 days a week to hit the gym. I’ll help out with whatever the fuck else, just give me that, but they act like that’s asking a lot.

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Anonymous #6 13w

I made a comment above saying I do buy my own food, but even though I do my family will still eat it.

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Anonymous #6 13w

We’re aware bro, we’re allowed to complain and vent

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Anonymous #3 13w

Spent 10hrs working that day to avoid all the food they made

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Anonymous OP 13w

This is a disorder man. Skipping family time bcuz you’re obsessed with your abs? Yikes

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Anonymous #11 13w

It’s a disorder because someone cares about their body and avoids a toxic food environment? I love my family, but I am literally the only member of my family who is not morbidly obese (used to be) and trying to be around them when food is involved is never a good idea for me. Maybe we need to stop labeling the people that want to be healthy as having a disorder, and we should label the people who don’t give a fuck about their health as the ones with a disorder.

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Anonymous #4 13w

They went to their parent’s house for Father’s Day. That kind of thing literally only happens once a year and if you over eat for one weekend that’s literally nothing in the grand scheme of things. There will come a time when our parents pass away and we won’t be able to spend holidays with them, so who gives a rats ass if you overeat on Father’s Day or Christmas or whatever. Eat a little less the next couple days if it means that much pretty simple

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Anonymous #12 13w

Didn’t read that part, ok yeah avoiding your family on father’s day for the sake of 1 day of eating, that’s a little far dude.

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Anonymous #9 13w

So valid

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Anonymous #11 13w

I actually don’t have a great relationship with either of my parents so yes I didn’t celebrate with them and they didn’t care that I was at work all day

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the second you bulk though none of this happens

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Like oh my God, it genuinely pisses me off how you can be so dismissive of somebody else’s goals. You’ll tell them 100 times and they will always act like it isn’t a big deal. Literally the other day my mom came back with a large chocolate shake from Dairy Queen for me, and was passive aggressive the entire day when I said no thank you.

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Anonymous #4 13w

You can buy meat for 5 dollars …

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Anonymous #11 13w

most grocery stores close by that time

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Anonymous #8 13w

Learned helplessness

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tbh the nerve of anyone to dismiss your work and decide for you that it’s okay to skip one day. Like seriously, fuck off. Whether or not the gym is skippable is my decision, and your plans aren’t more important than that.

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Anonymous #11 13w

Holy fuck dude let someone complain. I’m fully aware these are easy problems to solve, becuase I solve them all the time. It’s okay to vent a little bit sometimes because something is annoying. I hope you’ve never complained about anything ever.

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Anonymous #4 13w

I try try to avoid complaining about things that are entirely my fault and easily resolved

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Anonymous #11 13w

Cool bro. I solve the issues too. Complaining about something that is relatable and kinda funny is a good way to relate to others. It’s not that serious bud, I’m sure you’re a ton of fun at parties.

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Anonymous #12 13w

I live with my parents I didn’t visit them, and I was scheduled at work for the whole day I asked them if they wanted me to not work and they said I should go to work cause what they are having for dinner “won’t be good for my diet anyway”

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Anonymous #24 13w

That’s literally true though. Muscles need calories. Abs are cosmetic and vanity.

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Anonymous #11 13w

The reason most of us workout is vanity lol

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Anonymous #11 13w

I’m not even doing a calorie deficit for abs, I could care less if I have them lmao. I’m just trying to get rid of the extra fat I don’t want (trying to get leaner)

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Anonymous #4 13w

Exactly!

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