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Ok so I spent time in the gym to be more confident when dating but I still feel the same I did before. What now?
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Anonymous 15w

How’s your self worth? Self worth is the foundation beneath confidence and unlike confidence doesn’t fluctuate due to outside circumstances

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Anonymous 15w

start doing things you don’t feel comfortable doing or confident in. feel too uncomrrsbke going out to get food or do stuff alone? do it. don’t feel confident to talk to people? try it. you’re on a floating rock in space and even if you do something embarrassing, 99% of people are in their own work and won’t notice it, and the other will forget in minutes. try building up from there

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 15w

Not good, I went to the therapist but I couldn’t get it covered anymore. I will try to apply the self worth skills she taught me

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