don’t - i’save it for someone who cares about you

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As a girl who has hooked up and regretted it? It’s not really worth it tbh. It sounds fun and all but leaves you feeling real hollow if it isn’t with someone who truly cares about you and loves you.

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Also do it with someone you know and trust so you don’t catch any STDs please. It’s so real these days and can stay for a long fuckass time without it showing symptoms on people. If you’re doing it with someone who’s sexually active dont do it with the until they show you a panel of tests. Go slow. Not fast. Slower is better the first time around. Make sure you treat yourself with aftercare. Stay safe. 🫶🏻❤️🌸

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But if you do decide to do it despite what we say, which we will not take offense towards, make sure you go in well hydrated, pee before and after sex to prevent urinary infections, eat pineapples (lots and eating it a few days in advance helps) make coochie smell and taste better, wear good deodorant, be confident because nothing is sexier (I repeat - NOTHING is sexier than a confident woman), talk, have fun, laugh, flirt and DO LOTS AND LOTS AND LOTS OF FOREPLAY. Use lube. Water based lubes

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it. Hair is normal. Don’t be insecure about the little things. Dude is not going to notice if you don’t make it noticeable. Make sure you stay well hydrated. Dehydration is real. Also if possible use dotted or ribbed condoms they’re more pleasurable than the normal ones. Play it out. Explore what you like doing and be open and communicative about things you like / did not like. Discuss sex. Learn things about each other’a bodies. Eat food after not before sex for the best meal of your life.

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Do not use things like coconut oil because they break down the membrane of the condom and DO IT WITH A CONDOM. it’s either with a condom or no sex at all. Be straight. Keep your boundaries uptight. Do it with someone who truly keeps you and makes you feel safe. Say no at first. You know what makes a guy feel safe? Say no about a small thing that matters. If he respects your no(s) that’s the kind of man you can hook up with. Also shower before. Shaving is your preference and don’t feel bad about

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make sure the person has a vibe that you’re comfortable with before laying/sitting in their bed, and use protection! otherwise just have fun and be safe!

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