Anonymous #1 1d

I see ur point but I’d never date a man publicly or closeted. Just for head. I’ve thought that makes me pan but every gay person I’ve ever met that knows this tells me I’m straight asl despite this. The guy himself said “u just don’t have the rainbow in u”

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Anonymous OP 1d

Sometimes we’re printed in printer toner ink (🩷💛💙)

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Anonymous #4 21h

Bc they prob wouldn’t want to be with a bi man if they are straight

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Anonymous #4 20h

What? Does a woman being with a bi man make the woman not straight? Does a gay man being with a bi man make the gay man not gay? If he’s bi (or pan) it doesn’t change the other’s sexuality????

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Anonymous #3 19h

No as a straight woman I just do not want a bisexual man I want a straight man.That’s my preference and a lot of straight cis women feel the same. I don’t want a man who is attracted to men to be attracted to me. I’ve tried it and the guy was hyper feminine but he liked me a lot and it just felt wrong for me personally. Everyone should have the right to choose what they want in a partner. I don’t butt into what the lgbtq community does so don’t butt into what I want.

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Anonymous #4 18h

Okay but not all bi men are “hyper feminine.” Thats just crazy to me that the deal breaker is if they also like men /genuine

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Anonymous #4 17h

I think you might just be hyper straight. I’ve had long term romantic relationships with straight women and told them about this. Hasn’t ever been an issue. One told me it was a form of self harm. I don’t like men. I’m the farthest thing from feminine. I build race cars at work everyday, chop wood, fish and hunt, have a decent beard and gym 5 days a week—not tooting my own horn as much as just proving my masculinity to you.

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Anonymous OP 16h

You could be heteroflexible if you’re interested in a flag

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Anonymous OP 15h

You’re still inherently gay the more you deny it the more you crave that. I promise you in a few years you’ll still be the same person with the same interests and hobbies but you’ll just want men romantically too.

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Anonymous #4 15h

This was 5 years ago. I’m no gayer.

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Anonymous #3 15h

If they want to take it in the ass they are feminine and I’m sorry but it grosses me out. If I find out the loml wants dih years into the relationship I’m instantly turned off by him. I get to choose what I want and I simply don’t like bi men, it’s not my fault a lot of other straight women feel the same. Bi men can do whatever they want I genuinely don’t care, but they have to realize not everyone wants them 🤷‍♀️ just like how gay men don’t want women and how lesbians don’t want men

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Anonymous OP 15h

I mean listen it’s your life, even if your partners did mind that’s none of my business it’s good you tell them and let them decide what they will with that info 🩷🩷

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Anonymous #4 15h

I think u misinterpreted the original message. I was receiving the head not giving it.

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Anonymous OP 15h

Lowkey, I’m usually nervous around het men (personal trauma, unrelated to sexuality) but the fact you’re so open about this is 1. Hot. 2. Puts you so much higher in my book. I loooove a respectful and honest man

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Anonymous #3 13h

Wait I love that I’m stealing that

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Anonymous #3 13h

Yea I actually didn’t understand this. Been thinking about what it means all day. Someone please explain😭

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Anonymous #4 13h

Oh fuck you. Biphobia to the max

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Anonymous #8 13h

Baby no I don’t care what you choose to do or who you choose to date. Just don’t police my choices. I can choose who to date and I can have personal reasons why. For example people date within their religion because they prefer someone who understands. I can choose to date a non lgbtq man 🤣 not that crazy

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