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I have a new bf but I still miss my ex cause he was my only friend for a good bit, do I call him?
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Anonymous 7w

Maybe talk to your bf first and see how he feels

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Anonymous 7w

This tells me you miss him more than you love your current boyfriend

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Anonymous 7w

why is everyone saying yes they want your relationship to fail bc they’re miserable. literally not fair to your current bf whatsoever

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Anonymous 7w

What exactly are you hoping to gain from the call? Also, what is it specifically that you miss about the ex? I’d try to explore where exactly these feelings are coming from and what you think you may be able to do about them before actually deciding.

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Anonymous 7w

As long as you have clear communication with your boyfriend about it and he’s ok with it, I say go for it. If it ever gets to a point where you feel the need to be secretive, drop it immediately

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Anonymous 7w

Tbh yes. I have done this bc my ex and I dated for so long even when I had no friends. If it’s platonic, there’s no harm imo

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Anonymous 7w

YES! CALL HIM!! It’s perfectly healthy and completely okay to think about your ex, miss him when you are getting into a new relationship!

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Anonymous 6w

Leave that man alone you don’t deserve him

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Anonymous 7w

CAAAALLLLL HIMMMMM

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Anonymous 7w

yessss

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

My bf knows the full situation and said if talking to my ex is the closure I need to have then get it, I just don’t know if it’s a good idea because I know how the breakup went.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

If you don’t mind, how’d the break end ?

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 7w

Bonus points if you meet up with your ex after you’re married with someone and sleep with them to quickly move on from ur ex it’s always a good idea to

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Anonymous 6w

@Grok, do you mind explaining to this dude what sarcasm means?

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