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Hookup Horror Stories 15w
I’m 20 and have been hooking up with a 27 year old man for a couple months now, the sex is amazing and he’s extremely respectful but he insists on cuddling me and babying me after sex despite not wanting to be in a relationship w me
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Anonymous 15w

Girl leave his dusty ass. Because his bringing forth emotions that’s not true, and playing in your face. Plus at 27, he knows what that does to someone. I went through this long-term fwb that turned into a 5-year situationship

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Anonymous 15w

I personally appreciate aftercare and I don’t see it as a relationship thing necessarily

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Anonymous 15w

I’m in a situation kinda like this and honestly it’s pretty good. I do not want sex with someone who doesn’t treat me nicely. Like we’re actually friends with the benefits

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Anonymous 15w

That’s very confusing innit

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Anonymous 15w

what’s the issue? you want a relationship and he doesn’t ? stop seeing him then

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Anonymous 15w

As a guy, drop his ass. I previously did that in two situationships that I didn’t want to go any further with and only realized later how wildly unfair that was to them. It’s fucked up and you deserve better than him

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 15w

FIVE YEARS, you’re a soldier

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15w

Listen!! He still tries to hit it, and I’m not going back. Don’t let yourself be tied down to someone who’s already lived through their 20s. I️m just now 30 and he’s 36, and I️m refusing to do another situationship like that

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 15w

No neither of us want one, but he’s treating me like he does

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 15w

This.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15w

if he’s telling you he doesn’t want a relationship then he prolly doesn’t want one. just because he wants to cuddle and baby you doesn’t mean he wants a relationship…

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 15w

No ik that, there’s just other shit going on as well

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15w

if you’re not happy with him then break things off. if there’s an issue that can be solved then talk about it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 15w

This right here don’t take advice from someone who’s 30 and hasn’t figured out how to determine if someone is half a decent human being

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