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never let any guy know u have an iud… (unless ur like actually together ig) i swear everytime its just “so we fucking raw?” “oh i forgot a condom but you have that thing anyways”…gtfo i don’t know what you have
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Anonymous 6w

i mean i feel that this is just a sign that the guys you are seeing have questionable motives and a lack of respect, if that's the sort of moves they're pulling

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Anonymous 6w

Ugh this is so real 😭 I only recently started the pill (for irregular periods) but even before guys would still try and use the “oh but I’m REALLY good at pulling out trust me” like bro it’s literally been proven that it doesn’t work like that

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Anonymous 6w

Yeah I’m always like “we gotta use a condom. I’m not on the pill” because TECHNICALLY my IUD is not a pill ✌️

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Anonymous 6w

So kinda, I want to use a condom cause idk what SHE has even if she has an IUD. But I have gotten a std test before every sexual partner I’ve ever had(except the first) and if they also get one and it’s clean then yeah… I would want to do it raw if they allow it. Otherwise condom it is, sex is still fun with a condom

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Anonymous 6w

I got lucky but I literally never had protected sex with anyone UNTIL my current gf for the first few times

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Anonymous 6w

Fucking mood sometimes I hate that I have an iud be careful I have an iud and set boundaries and TW for SA I had one guy try to stick it in without me knowing and one actually do that men can be dangerous so bring protection and I don’t mean a condom 😌 if they try anything

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Anonymous 6w

Yeah I actually might stop telling them just so like I don’t have to be the only one pushing for condom use and it’s implied

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Anonymous 5w

If a girl tells me she has an IUD, I’m not sleeping with her. That shit has cut me and failed so many times

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Anonymous 6w

tell him ur on the pill but kinda suck at taking it consistently… usually works for me

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Anonymous 6w

Just ask for their std test results?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

idk now i always say im not doing shit if they don’t have a condom but i always get pushback on it 😭, but yeah i wouldn’t disagree, most guys ive talked to don’t have much respect 🙂‍↕️

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

We really need to stop blaming women for men’s actions. She isn’t ‘seeking’ these men, these men just exist. Get on their case, not hers

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

If you get pushback let them know they are lucky they are even here at all

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

i mean but we don't HAVE to settle for mid men do we?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

oh i usually don’t, almost all the guys who do ts don’t get anythinggg, it’s just annoying that it happens in the first place and so often

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

This is so reminiscent of when people ask a physical abuse victim why they got with the abuser to begin with. It's not like they make their disgusting personality obvious before you get with them

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

It’s more that nowadays we have like 5% good men, 65% mid men, 30% bad men so it’s not that we’re settling for mid men, we just run into them more

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 6w

wait lowk this is smart…

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 6w

People lie though and some times give outdated results since it takes days for results and they might be still active and could catch something after the test

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 5w

So many times? 😭 How many times have you had IUD failure because chances of that are 0.1%

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Anonymous replying to -> tomatogames 5w

Well I’ve got a kid with my ex now sooooo

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Anonymous replying to -> tomatogames 5w

Also whoever told you that is god damn liar. I’d rather just find another woman than sleep with a girl that uses an IUD. Definitely not missing anything in that passed opportunity

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 5w

So it sounds like it failed for you once, not many times. And that is scientifically proven, your one case is anecdotal evidence and doesn’t contradict the facts at all

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Anonymous replying to -> tomatogames 5w

Holy shit this is yik yak and IUDs are gross. I didn’t come here to debate with your sandpaper ahh ass

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

cap the caliber of man you get reflects the caliber of woman you are

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 5w

What about this post made you think she sounded anywhere near willing to raw with or without std tests? Reading comprehension

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