Anonymous #3 3w

So no to both, but he didn’t finish inside me. I’m just having some physical symptoms that I’m not used to and it’s stressing me out

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Anonymous OP 3w

Have you taken a pregnancy test yet? I would prolly take one as soon as possible.

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Anonymous #6 3w

Nahhh I got pregnant doing that😭 wrap it up!!

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Anonymous #9 3w

but i’m locked in pull out not hard

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Anonymous OP 3w

If you’ve got physical symptoms you need to take a pregnancy test (or 2) to confirm what’s going on. There’s nothing significant about the first time that changes pregnancy risk

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Anonymous #12 3w

What’s your reasoning for saying this?

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Anonymous #5 3w

What’s your reasoning for saying this?

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Anonymous #3 3w

I took two within a day of each other, both are negative. I’m experiencing cramping and spotting about five days after having sex

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Anonymous OP 3w

sounds pretty normal to me. partner probably broke your hymen

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Anonymous #8 3w

That’s what I’m thinking. Googling things are driving me crazy

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Anonymous OP 3w

If the partner was rough, inexperienced, or if it was your first time, then spotting is completely normal. Cramping could be your body adjusting itself to the intrusion and I’ve heard sex makes changes to your body in general.

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Anonymous #3 3w

It was pretty rough, almost forceful, and it was my first time. But like this long after? Is 5-6 days too long? I’m thinking of going to a doctor

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Anonymous OP 3w

just stay away from those kinds of activities & use pads>tampons. and just rest your body

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Anonymous #10 3w

What do you think the % likelihood is of someone getting pregnant once off pre cum when the avg couple takes 6 months of trying to conceive to get pregnant?

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Anonymous #12 3w

Obviously I can’t give a % because there is far too many considerations. For example, what if he came like an hour before, or what if she was ovulating and in the peak of her fertility window? Like I could be very low like <3% but it could also be as high as >30%. Now I’m not saying that these were the circumstances, but the nature of this post indicates that these aren’t the type of people to think about these considerations beforehand.

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Anonymous #10 3w

Idk if your likelihood of getting pregnant any solitary time is ever 30% tbh. As I said, it takes couples who are trying (making odds most favorable) 6 months which correlates to dozens of tries to conceive

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Anonymous #12 3w

Please know I’m not trying to be rude, but that’s not how probability works and you aren’t considering any of the nuance here. There are multiple studies reporting that it’s actually quite common for conception rates to reach around 20-30% for a single encounter in a single cycle during peak fertility windows. But here's the thing, these numbers refer to the middle of the bell curve, the typical cases. Of course, there are people whose chances of conception well exceed 30%.

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Anonymous #10 3w

Likelihood at any given time with them finishing in you is 3.1% avg babe

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Anonymous #12 3w

I’m glad you’re trying to look for accurate sources, but you’re still not understanding that averages do not convey the absolute max or ceiling of likelihood. While arguing a single paper isn’t productive, I want to point out that your source finding could also use some work. The same authors from your source updated their work and stated that they were incorrect and they state an average probability of 9.7% babe.

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Anonymous #10 3w

1 in 10 is still not likely

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Anonymous #10 3w

I understand ceilings of probability, just not acknowledging it because that ceiling of probability is such a small window in the cycle and doesn’t skew the avg overall much

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Anonymous #12 3w

This was one of the lower reports I had seen and the study had a pretty small sample size. Regardless, I never was interested in arguing specific percentages, I even said in a previous comment that there’s no way to give a single percentage due to the level of variance. My only point was that your comment saying “incredibly low” when you have almost no information (and probably no background) to support that claim is highly misleading and I was curious what you were basing that on.

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Anonymous #10 3w

As I said, I based it on reported data of how long it takes on avg to conceive when couples are trying

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Anonymous #12 3w

A single statistic about the average time for a couple trying to conceive has basically no discriminative power in the context of this person’s likelihood of getting pregnant. Also even in the most charitable assessment where we assume the numbers you give are correct, it still is misleading to say the chances of getting pregnant after any unprotected sex encounter are “incredibly low”. Like how do you not see that.

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Anonymous #10 3w

I mean from what OP was describing it’s low. Knowing that the raw data on getting pregnant from a single act is as you said around 10% plus OP not saying she was in peak window, and the guy seemingly having pulled out. So 10% minus those factors

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Anonymous #12 3w

Let’s consider what we know about OP: It was their first time and they came to yikyak for advice about pregnancy. Do you think they are tracking their ovulation correctly or at all? Given that it’s their first time, how likely do you think it is that their partner is experienced enough to get ideal execution of the pullout method. They are probably young, which would increase likelihood of better sperm motility, higher maximum survivability duration, and maybe even higher sperm count.

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Anonymous #10 3w

Regardless, I don’t think we are making any progress here and I want to reiterate that I’m not trying to be rude, I just was hoping to introduce even a bit of the nuance that you left out of your initial answer. Have a good day and sorry if it came off like I was being overly blunt

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Anonymous #10 3w

She was semi tracking because she knows when her period was supposed to be and I’m sure estimated the window after the fact and didn’t say she was in peak window. It was her first time, no mention of partners first time. So yeah, pulled out and she wasn’t in peak window

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