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How do I break up with the man I’ve been with for a LONGGGG time- he cheated on me a few months back and I stayed with him, if I bring it up I’m the problem yet I cant seem to leave please help. I don’t want to be with him but I also dont want to hurt him
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Anonymous 21h

Do u think he cares if he hurt you? Why does it matter if u hurt him

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Anonymous 20h

Why are you so hesitant to hurt him when he had no problem hurting you? If he gets hurt that’s his own problem, the consequences of his own actions, and not your responsibility. You’re giving him so much compassion when he couldn’t even give you the bare minimum. You don’t deserve that treatment when there’s plenty of people who would cherish you and give you the world

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Anonymous 21h

Someone has to get hurt if someone leaves, you just have to take the leap of faith. You need to do what is best for your future. Also, he hurt you, he seems to not care at all.

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 21h

Idc I thought abt marrying this guy and I don’t wanna hurt him

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 21h

You thought about it but it’s time for u to think about something else. Break up with him

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 21h

He definitely doesn’t care but I’m scared of leaving and never finding the one

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 21h

Since he is not the one, you will never be able to find the one if you don’t leave. I hope it goes well for you, I know leaving is very hard

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