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I had an ex who while we were dating confessed he was into 13 year olds 😳. I tried to ignore it cuz I was already in love with him when he told me but I feel absolutely terrible for staying with him for that long
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Anonymous 14w

Did you ever report him??

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Anonymous 14w

you need to report this. seriously. both the sa and the pedo comments. i know you feel bad for staying with him for so long but you'd make up for it by preventing another assault (possibly on a child)

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14w

Unfortunately no. He said he’d never act on it, and after the relationship was over he SAed me so that was another layer of I don’t want to cause a scene

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14w

Not illegal to have those thoughts. Nothing would be done.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14w

The SA happened so long ago and he moved out of state, I feel like especially at this point it’s not worth it. Plus I do not want to see his face ever again

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 14w

Ik, but it’s still real gross

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14w

I just don’t think that they will do anything ab it honestly

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

I can understand where you’re coming from to an extent, although I really with I couldn’t. There was a guy (25 at the time!!) I was kinda seeing and messing with that I’d count as 🍇, but had sex with a 16 year old. I didn’t know this until after he and I messed around again, but no one did anything about it

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 14w

Yeah.. that sucks for the 16 year old but yeah in my situation I just don’t want to draw attention to me and it’s not worth that if they won’t do anything about it. Like I care more about preventing anything else from happening than justice for what happened to me and I don’t think reporting it will do anything

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

The system might not get him but you could tarnish his reputation. Put it out there. Warn girls. Warn his relatives. Put it up in places it could get back to him. He deserves to be shamed and to have this blow up in his face no matter how much time has passed. You might give strength to others who he may have gone on to hurt after you. I’m sure you have friends who will support you. Let the public condemn him

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 13w

Especially the pedo part, he needs to be made aware or put on a watch list

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