Chose the right person and don’t be afraid to wait until they come around - #5 is right - it’s all about feeling safe.
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Anonymous3d
Learn how to spell virgin.. and expect pain
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Anonymous3d
dont expect anything literally
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Anonymous3d
make sure you have good foreplay before, it might hurt a little either during or after (if hurt after for me) but tell the dude to go slow, if you haven’t been fingered ever start with that before actually have sex
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Anonymous2d
relax and let your partner lead. if you don’t feel safe knowing they will be gentle with you and take care of you? run. 🤷♀️
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Anonymous#13d
did that on purpose but ok
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Anonymous#13d
Expected pain 😭😭😭
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Anonymous#43d
If u need someone to go slower, demand it because its your body and its a new experience, plus sometimes slower feels better. Trust your intuition and do what feels right. And u never have to do anything u dont want to. It definitely gets better as you practice more