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Is hooking up worth it? I really want to lose my virginity but at the same time I'm nervous. I'm a senior and I really want to lose it before I graduate. I'm scared I'II disappoint and not last long but I also don't want to pretend I know what I'm doing
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Anonymous 19h

Don’t rush into it. It’s not a big deal if you’re a virgin or not, I’d honestly keep waiting. If you want to lose it, talk to people you’re interested in, someone why you trust deeply, and talk with them about it. Set boundaries and make sure you’re both understood. It’s not worth it to rush into making such a big decision. Take your time with it, and be confident that you’re making the right choice for yourself

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Anonymous 20h

I lost it as a junior because I felt ugly (I’m a female) This experience cost me my education because I felt low in life I thought it would make me better but it made me hyper sexual and led me down a road of drugs to forget, what I had done with a man I felt so disgusting.

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Anonymous 16h

don’t lose your virginity with a hookup, i went that route, and i regret it immensely, trust me.

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Anonymous 19h

not worth it

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Anonymous 12h

I lost mine to a hookup in the back of his car and honestly I just wanted to lose it. I don’t regret it bc i know it’s what I wanted but I will say this, it’s so much better when it’s with someone you love. That said, it’s up to you and at the end of the day, your body and choice

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Anonymous 13h

hooking up might be fun later, but you’ll remember your first. it’ll be much more fulfilling if you know the person, trust them, and are able to communicate what you want with them. maybe that’s a partner, or a friend, but do wait for the first. it’s worth it.

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Anonymous 9h

Virginity is a social construct

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Anonymous 8h

Not worth it bro

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Anonymous 6h

it’s not “worth it” but it’s also not a big deal

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 18h

best advice i’ve read right here. take this to heart OP

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 16h

agreed. i’ve hookup up with a virgin or two and people who just wanna hit and run will kinda ruin your image of sex

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 8h

I appreciate that man, thank you

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