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Hookup Horror Stories 10w
Yall im in a loving relationship and trying not to count but we were virgins and have been having sex last two months, we do it several times a week and I’ll give him a blowjob about 1-2 times a week. I’ve finished TWICE and been eaten out ONCE. That’s it
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Anonymous 10w

be straightforward and if he ignores or dismisses it then break up life is TOO short to not be in a proper caring relationship

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Anonymous 10w

Have you straight up spoken to him about it?

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Anonymous 10w

I love him and I know he loves me but this is not how I thought it’d be. I get we’re both new and learning but I don’t know anymore hints I can give to help

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Anonymous 10w

I’ve been in a loving relationship the past 9 months and I only finish when I start touching myself. I was a virgin they weren’t idk maybe this is just how it’s gonna be

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Anonymous 10w

make him take care of you before he touches himself or don’t have sex LOL. sounds like he isn’t trying to make it good for you

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

STOP GIVING HINTS AND JYST ASK FOR WHAT UOIR WAINT

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 10w

Deadass though, if you can’t communicate what you want, then it is never on your partner for not providing what you want

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 10w

right, communication is key

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 10w

To clarify I have, like for eating out, I straight up asked him why he never does that just curious like what’s the problem. He said it was just new so I was like you know what to help you out, I will get waxed and drink pineapple juice. So literally all last week I was drinking pineapple juice and then yesterday was my last straw and I was like lovingly wtf I want head if you want to give it and he said he didn’t feel great so I dropped it but now it just sucks

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 10w

Yes we’ve had a lot of conversations about it. Also he feels really bad that I don’t finish, he normally finishes early so he’s always apologetic and just feels bad after. He’s done good at taking the tips I give him but ngl he just doesn’t last long enough for me to finish if that makes sense

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

It makes sense. Does still suck tho

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 10w

I totally agree with this. We’ve had lots of conversations about it and there’s been several times where I blatantly will say I’d like to do a,b,c. Majority of the time he’ll say he just doesn’t feel great or isn’t in the mood, and I totally get that but it’s just frustrating. By hints I mean I will literally stand naked in front of him and be like “it’d be really nice to have sex right about now” like what things like that. So hints may not be right, but I hate feeling like I’m begging for sex

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

Sounds like you are. Is he just a dumb ass?😂

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

Then it sounds like your boyfriend has a lower sex drive than you. If that’s the case, I’ve been there, it sucks, good luck

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

this🙌🏼🙌🏼

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

Sex doesn’t have to end when he finishes. He could eat you out after or use his hand or toys on you. Or you could orgasm before the sex maybe more forplay

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 9w

No that doesn’t need to be what it’s gonna be don’t settle. You wouldn’t want your boyfriend to only finish from his own touch, would you?

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 9w

I mean yeah. I’ll probably bring it up at some point, I think they just don’t know how to touch a clit cause every time they try it kinda hurts 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 9w

A bit oblivious, kind of a dumbass in a cute way but yes he’s pretty oblivious

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 9w

Yea that’s kind of what we’ve been thinking too

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 9w

It’s definitely been a learning experience, we’re both each others first so he didn’t really get that I can’t just get turned on like a button kinda like he can. He’s gotten a lot better with tips tho

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