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What should I do if I cannot have an orgasm because my medication is preventing me from reaching it?

Anonymous 20w

If you mean with a partner, be honest and upfront with them, and focus more on the journey than the destination. As a male on SSRIs and who just typically gets nervous, I’ve never finished with a partner, but every time has been a blast (maybe because it’s so infrequent, I’m just happy to be there). Solo play? Maybe a similar philosophy, or find other means of stimulation, like erotic audio or literature.

Anonymous

#1 20w

Regardless, best of luck!

Anonymous

#1 20w

no, solo masturbation

Anonymous

OP 20w

Yeah, sorry, I wish I had better advice. If I think of anything else, I’ll try to let you know. But I can sorta relate. Sometimes, I just give up and call it a day. Other times I just go for extra long until I finish.

Anonymous

#1 20w

Aye, you’re the first person I’ve met even on yikyak who also deals with this! It can be frustrating and embarrassing, but I’ve found my partner to be surprisingly chill about it and I’ve learned to enjoy the experience so much more instead of treating it as a race to a goal

Anonymous

#1 20w

Also, a secret superpower of ours: if the only thing stopping you is eventually getting tired, you can usually last way longer than you would if you’d finished 😉

Anonymous

#2 20w

oh my gosh i feel so seen i haven’t met anyone ever who deals with this and i thought i may just be going insane but it genuinely feels so frustrating sometimes