
It’s for sit’s where that’s not possible. Like I’d watch a movie with my bf in HS, but we had to keep the basement door open, but the entrance was on the other side of the house and we could hear someone walking. So It was so we could get the practice cardio in and everything look normal if someone came to investigate.
A woman can’t be comfortable with her sexuality. If she is, her femininity is called into question. If I have specific preferences, well then I must not be women, I must be a poser or transvestite or lesbian. “This makes me think, this must mean she’s not a woman. Icky, different!”