most people’s first time is not good and that’s part of the experience, it’s a learning curve you just have to get more practice :)

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My first time (and a few after that) sucked ASS! It can and will get better, especially if you try different things. If you can’t get it up, you can always use your hands, mouth, or a toy

19

No, love. It’s totally natural to loose/not get an erection if you are putting too much pressure on yourself. You’re new to sex, no one is good at it the first time. Hell, some people never get good at it. Go with the flow, listen to #1, and #2, and grow at your own pace.

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Totally normal bro. My first time was awkward too lol. It gets so much better with practice and communication

11

Do some experimenting (gender, positions, types of sex etc) if it calls to you! Or sex just couldn’t be for you. Ya never know

9

Remember, sex is supposed to be fun. Don’t take it too seriously. It’s completely normal to struggle to get an erection your first time. Try to get out of your head and lose yourself in the moment

8

we got blue balled my first time :[

1

Do some research and get it together. Learn and don’t embarrass yourself again

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