did he purposely break it? or was it an accident and just wasnt noticed? did he not listen to you when you expressed concern? i fear you are using the word traumatized loosely. if you cant handle a condom breaking, dont have sex. that shit happens, its apart of the risk that you should be fully aware of.
No, sorry I should’ve given more information. He’s honestly so sweet. Right after that he immediately apologized and went about taking care of me. I think it just really made me think about the potential for disaster that premarital sex has (which I obviously knew but apparently didn’t KNOW) and so I started freaking out. So now I’m like yep let’s take a big fat step away from sex for the foreseeable future.