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Just fucked my ex… we went 4 months no contact after she basically cheated on me. We both knew we shouldn’t do it, but it was great sex. Am I definitely going to regret this? Is FWB something that ever works out, especially with an ex? Chat- am I cooked?
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Anonymous 14w

If you had feelings for her in the past, it’s incredibly easy to catch them again. Whatever counts as basically cheating, assume she would continue doing that while y’all were FWB—could you be okay with that? I say end it. There are other people out there you can find good sex with

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Anonymous 14w

Nice that you had good sex. But HELL NO IT DOESNT WORK OUT ESPECIALLY WITH A CHEATING EX WTF YOU DOIN!!!

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Anonymous 14w

I did this and he pounded my door in at one in the morning

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Anonymous 14w

Cooked

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Anonymous 14w

As a person who has been fwb with an ex in the past.. prob shouldn’t. When I tried to end it and just be friends he didn’t really respond appropriately with his actions, like still tried to fuck me when we would hang out and ended up SAing me. Even gave him an option to go no contact after I ended it but dude wanted to still be in my life as he put it. Def not your situation but just think about different scenarios before getting into it

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Anonymous 14w

she doesn’t deserve u and u deserve better, don’t be desperate

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Anonymous 13w
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Anonymous replying to -> #8 14w

That sounds horrible, I’m sorry you had to go through that! Hopefully he’s long gone and out of your life by now and you can move on and heal from it!

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 14w

He’s long gone, I’ve got a fantastic bf now who I’ve been with for a long time

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