This is rape. It doesn’t matter if you didn’t say “no” explicitly. Consent requires an ENTHUSIASTIC YES - and if there is no yes, that is omission of consent, meaning this was rape. It’s not something you asked for and it’s not something you desired. Don’t deny it to yourself. I hope you heal and find justice bc this is so fucked up
I used to be like this (letting people do things to me that I didn’t want) and be a really big people pleaser, but you also need to remember that you are a people you should focus on pleasing first and foremost, especially in intimate situations and/or during sex. It took me a long time, trust me, but I finally learned to protect my peace and not let myself make excuses for other people’s actions when they were clearly unwanted
This is why you never have unprotected sex with a stranger, and you didn’t say yes at all, you hesitated, you didn’t say yes because you weren’t enthusiastic. Please tell the assholeish that he has aids, and then report him to the police IMMEDIATELY for rape (because he did rape you) so he can go to prison for the rest of his life, as all rapists deserve.
Damn you knew him personally beforehand? Like he’s a close friend? That’s even worse man, he violated your trust. I’m a little confused though because you said you now have HIV/AIDs (they are kind of the same thing, one is a precursor to the other) but now you won’t get aids? Or is it just that the disease or infection won’t get any worse than it already is now? Either way, I’m glad you’re on medication to prevent the infection from spreading to others. (1/?)
But very seriously though, I’d recommend reporting him to the police for rape as non of this was 100% consensual, or at least, tell somebody you trust Y’know?😕🙂Like, idk maybe it sounds cringe to you and other people reading this to be all serious in an anonymous app under some random post of a complete stranger but like, this is a serious topic and thing that happened to you and everyone here just seems to be trying to help, from multiple strangers to one.🫂(2/2)