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We didn’t have a condom so we agreed to just fool around a bit without penetration. When he put it in i didn’t want it to happen but it felt like it was too late to tell him to stop. He ended up giving me hiv 😵‍💫
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Anonymous 15w

Yeah, that sounds like rape big dawg

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Anonymous 15w

Isn’t that a crime?

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Anonymous 15w

FYI it’s NEVER too late!! I’m so sorry that happened 😭

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Anonymous 15w

If I had told him to pull out right away it probably wouldn’t have happened I’m such a pushover lmao

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Anonymous 15w

that is straight up rape?

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Anonymous 15w

HIV? Damn so your life is ruined? Be careful out here folks

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Anonymous 14w

This is rape. It doesn’t matter if you didn’t say “no” explicitly. Consent requires an ENTHUSIASTIC YES - and if there is no yes, that is omission of consent, meaning this was rape. It’s not something you asked for and it’s not something you desired. Don’t deny it to yourself. I hope you heal and find justice bc this is so fucked up

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Anonymous 15w

Not chlamydia, not gonnorhea, but HV!! That’s so crazy damn. He definitely knew he had it too so don’t let him tell you that.

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Anonymous 14w

Hate how common this is. You tell them no to raw and they know your boundaries and they STILL just stick it in and then it’s just too late atp

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Anonymous 14w

I used to be like this (letting people do things to me that I didn’t want) and be a really big people pleaser, but you also need to remember that you are a people you should focus on pleasing first and foremost, especially in intimate situations and/or during sex. It took me a long time, trust me, but I finally learned to protect my peace and not let myself make excuses for other people’s actions when they were clearly unwanted

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Anonymous 14w

I’m so sorry OP! You did nothing wrong, & I hope you know you are still as lovable & worthy as before💗

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Anonymous 14w

Please report him to the police and see a doctor. This WAS RAPE. You didn’t give enthusiastic consent at all. Please tell anyone and everyone before you have sex that you have AIDs and take medication for this to prevent it spreading to anybody.

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Anonymous 14w

This is why you never have unprotected sex with a stranger, and you didn’t say yes at all, you hesitated, you didn’t say yes because you weren’t enthusiastic. Please tell the assholeish that he has aids, and then report him to the police IMMEDIATELY for rape (because he did rape you) so he can go to prison for the rest of his life, as all rapists deserve.

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Anonymous 14w

Oh my gosh girl I’m so sorry

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Anonymous 14w

Maybe you can ask a doctor to figure out if you can get cured? You mentioned you were at least on medication right?

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Anonymous 14w

That is assault. That man deserves jail time

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Anonymous 14w

Yeah both dudes?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 15w

I don’t think he knew he had it

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 15w

I’m on antivirals so I’m not gonna die or anything and i won’t be able to pass it to anyone else at least

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15w

baby he knew

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 15w

But I didn’t say no

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15w

but you didn’t say yes

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

Nah I bet you $100 he KNEW and didn’t give a shit. You should tell him literally ASAP that he has AIDs just to make ABSOLUTELY sure he doesn’t spread it to anyone else!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

No offense, but I hope that changes and you won’t be able to be pushed around by anyone anymore. I’m really sorry this happened to you and you need to remember that you can always say no and be more assertive.

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 14w

He wasn’t even a stranger and I’m on medication that means i won’t get aids and i can’t give it to anyone else because my viral levels are so low

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

you explicitly agreed to no penetration before though

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 14w

Thats what this was 100%

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 14w

Yes exactly that! It’s so fucked and guys treat it like it’s nbd as long as they don’t cum inside. And like once it’s in there what’s the point of telling him to stop

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

Damn you knew him personally beforehand? Like he’s a close friend? That’s even worse man, he violated your trust. I’m a little confused though because you said you now have HIV/AIDs (they are kind of the same thing, one is a precursor to the other) but now you won’t get aids? Or is it just that the disease or infection won’t get any worse than it already is now? Either way, I’m glad you’re on medication to prevent the infection from spreading to others. (1/?)

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

But very seriously though, I’d recommend reporting him to the police for rape as non of this was 100% consensual, or at least, tell somebody you trust Y’know?😕🙂Like, idk maybe it sounds cringe to you and other people reading this to be all serious in an anonymous app under some random post of a complete stranger but like, this is a serious topic and thing that happened to you and everyone here just seems to be trying to help, from multiple strangers to one.🫂(2/2)

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

Doesn’t matter if he did or didn’t it’s still a crime if yall said you weren’t going too

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