
the fact that this conversation would even shift to mental health instead of criminalizing the perpetrators is frankly sickening. we always talk about locking up rapists and not enough of them are put to justice. however the same language is not brought into question for the women who put these men through this torturous hell
hereās the thing. you donāt disprove the rule. iām speaking in a general manner because i canāt tailor my speech for every individual person on yikyak. i think every man in this world can viscerally understand this pain. and men who hurt themselves didnāt bottle it up, they tried to reach out and had nowhere to go. but i find it revolting and frankly disgusting to not demonize women who do this in the same way we demonize rapists
ok hold up. nobody here is saying that rape is good or anything like that. I dont know a single man who is in favor of rape and thinks is good. NOT ONE. but i donāt see enough discussion for the men who are accused falsely(even if not to the police) and have their reputation tattered and isolated. I donāt think you understand or frankly care about the emotional anguish a man goes through to have something like that said about him when he is innocent. The isolation he feels.
the feeling that nobody believes him. that nobody cares about him. I find it interesting that most women report feeling āisolated and alone and donāt feel like anyone believes thatā and everyone shows empathy and compassion( as they very much should) but when a man is in the same suffering and pain, nobody really cares. thereās a reason that most falsely accused men who kill themselves(and yes they actually happen a lot) are barely reported in the media