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I got called a pussy by a chick after refusing to have sex, because i wanted to wait to get to know her a bit more. i only met her like 3 hours before😭
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Anonymous 6w

no shame in wanting to wait to get to know someone, good on you!

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Anonymous 6w

Just tell her she smells weird or her breath stinks then make a face so she’ll carry on feeling disgusted with herself

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Anonymous 6w

the fact that this conversation would even shift to mental health instead of criminalizing the perpetrators is frankly sickening. we always talk about locking up rapists and not enough of them are put to justice. however the same language is not brought into question for the women who put these men through this torturous hell

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Anonymous 6w

Where did you meet her

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Anonymous 6w

i think any false accusation should have the same prison sentence as the person would have gotten if he was found guilty

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Anonymous 6w

Oh my

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Anonymous 6w

Super sweet

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Anonymous 5w

good for you!!

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Anonymous 6w

here’s the thing. you don’t disprove the rule. i’m speaking in a general manner because i can’t tailor my speech for every individual person on yikyak. i think every man in this world can viscerally understand this pain. and men who hurt themselves didn’t bottle it up, they tried to reach out and had nowhere to go. but i find it revolting and frankly disgusting to not demonize women who do this in the same way we demonize rapists

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Anonymous 6w

Women handle rejection so badly

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

men kill/assault/rape women after rejecting them. i think one demographic handles it a lot worse than the other

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

booooooo

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6w

women falsely accuse and destroy men’s lives. for some reason, i’ve never met a woman who actually cares about that

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 6w

have the men who’ve been ā€œfalsely accusedā€ actually considered whether or not they respected their partners’ consent and didn’t coerce them or manipulate them, lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 6w

interesting that women are equal to men now but when the woman does something she regrets, it’s ā€œcoercion and manipulationā€ and when a man does something he regrets, he is told to be ā€œaccountableā€

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 6w

also please don’t prove my point about women not giving a fuck about how their fake allegations destroy men’s lives.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 6w

false accusations are rare but when they do happen, the woman is in the wrong. no one denies that. you can care about both, but one happens far more often and with deadlier consequences. if a woman lies, she should be held accountable. however, equating that to the amount of women who have been harmed, silenced, or not believed about what happened to them makes it seem like you’re more interested in blaming women than addressing real issues

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 6w

also i do care about the men who have had their lives (professional and personal) destroyed after a false accusation. it’s tragic and my heart goes out to them, and the women who do lie, should definitely face consequences. just because i care about one topic, doesn’t mean i don’t care about the other. that’s not how empathy or accountability works

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6w

ok hold up. nobody here is saying that rape is good or anything like that. I dont know a single man who is in favor of rape and thinks is good. NOT ONE. but i don’t see enough discussion for the men who are accused falsely(even if not to the police) and have their reputation tattered and isolated. I don’t think you understand or frankly care about the emotional anguish a man goes through to have something like that said about him when he is innocent. The isolation he feels.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6w

the feeling that nobody believes him. that nobody cares about him. I find it interesting that most women report feeling ā€œisolated and alone and don’t feel like anyone believes thatā€ and everyone shows empathy and compassion( as they very much should) but when a man is in the same suffering and pain, nobody really cares. there’s a reason that most falsely accused men who kill themselves(and yes they actually happen a lot) are barely reported in the media

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6w

that’s actually nice but i don’t think most women think about the suffering of men from these issues in the slightest. most of these men will unfortunately not be believed and will never be vindicated

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 6w

you're right, there isn't enough discussion. but you can't assume what people do and don't care about. exhibit a: you don't know me, nor my values and knowledge. the central park 5 was one of the most tragic cases of false imprisonment i've ever heard of. so i do understand and care. we can and should support both truths.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 6w

but instead of framing it as ā€œwomen get empathy and men don’tā€, why not ask why we live in a society that teaches men to bottle up pain and sees vulnerability as a weakness? that’s not a woman problem, it’s a systemic one. if men are committing suicide after being falsely accused, that’s a failure of mental health support and the stigma around male pain

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6w

my response is top. furthermore, it’s funny how you tell me that i can’t generalize when you’re quote is ā€œmen kill/assualt/rape women after rejecting themā€ i’ve never done that but you are generalizing the exact same

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 6w

reread for where i said that you were generalizing.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6w

ā€œbut you can’t assume what people do and don’t care aboutā€ which is calling me for generalizing all women but you generalized men as rapists murders and abusers

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 6w

I don’t condone emotional violence but ngl this is valid if you wanna be petty asf

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

bitch..

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