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So we met, went on a date, now- over three months later he plays with my hair, compliments me all the time, but says he’s not sure if he can love me / has the mental space for love…? Should i start distancing now or after the delusion settles in
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Anonymous 3d

SHOOT DAT BOI IN DA HEAD

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Anonymous 3d

If he doesn’t think he has the mental space to love you then give him all the mental space he wants and leave him tf alone. When people tell you who they are, believe them

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Anonymous 1d

Are you looking for love? Is that the only thing you’re looking for? Like if you just like spending time with them and hooking up and you don’t need love out of this transaction then obviously don’t distance, but if love is the only thing you’re after then yeah this ain’t it

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Anonymous 1d

Leaveeee

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3d

Yea :/ i gotcha

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