that’s very much sexual assault

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He didn’t choke you. He strangled you. The difference is a big deal.

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this is rape.

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OH HELL NO!!! And the fact he was able to finish while u were unconscious is serious concerning!!!!!!!!!!!

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that is rape op, i’m so sorry you went through this. if he’s don’t it once and clearly wasn’t showing remorse he is likely to do it again or worse. please take this as a sign that he doesn’t care about your safety

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very much weird

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As someone who has been through sa trauma this is rape and if he didn’t have the decency to make sure you were okay that’s a whole other red banner (flag is too small). Also the fact that you can’t consent when passed out. If you don’t feel safe go and get a rape kit and provide evidence to the police. I wish I had gone and now it’s 8 months later and too late. Just because you two are dating doesn’t mean he has consent. I’m so sorry you went through this. I understand how confusing it may be.

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What the fuck??? Please break up with him cause that’s not normal behavior. I’ve had ex’s that are into light choking but I’ve never gone so far to make them pass out and if they did I’d immediately check with them and get them the proper medical attention. That was purposeful on his part. It was rape, abuse and potentially the start to a pattern that you need to get away from cause it’s likely he’ll do it again

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Hello my love, first off this is RAPE. If you cannot consent to anything, it is rape. If you did not say yes, and were UNCONSCIOUS AND COULD NOT KNOW WAS HAPPENING that is rape. I’m so so sorry, and I hope you dump him AT LEAST and file a report

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pretty sure this is a felony

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Hello, you should report this! I’m sorry this happened to you

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Yea that’s not okay. He blood choked you. A very specific type of grip that will knock you out for a bit. If it wasn’t agreed upon beforehand that CNC was okay. Then no, this is sexual violence. And that he didn’t notice or care that you were unconscious is highly concerning and scary. Nonetheless to continue on as still be in the sexual moment to finish over what is a lifeless person. That’s fucking sick and nasty and messed up.

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yea so.. wtf? this adds on to me not finding choking enjoyable

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if you didn’t already consent to him continuing if a situation like that occurred, it’s sexual assault. even so, I’ve told my boyfriend that if I pass out, I want him to keep going and he says he’s not comfortable with that so the fact that your boyfriend didn’t even think twice about it is a major red flag.

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thats actually so fucked up please break up with him

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i really wanna know if you left him and ur safe op

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If you didn’t CLEARLY establish that it is ok for him to keep going after you’re unconscious it is rape. I have been with girls who have established BEFOREHAND that they would like for me to keep going should they lose consciousness but it is very very important that such a thing is well communicated and established beforehand which would fall under the category of cnc but cnc without consent isn’t cnc at all, it’s just rape

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i hope you mean ex.

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damn girl did he want to hurt u god damn, he should have not even wanted to put so much force ong

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That’s fucking weird, he might be a fucking necrophiliac

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Im so sorry… him still going is horrifying how could he not be concerned enough (prioritizing his own pleasure over your safety wtf) and being on his phone after is so disrespectful and concerning. 🚩🚩🚩

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Oh hun. 😢 That’s not okay.

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