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This girl told me she didn’t wanna do anything sexual and just wanted to hang out when she comes over. I agree, then when she gets to my place she’s all over me. We make out and all for a bit, the sexual tension is too high and we end up fucking …
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Anonymous 6w

I did this a lot when I was hooking up. I just wanted to keep my options open if I decided I didn’t want to. I feel like it puts less pressure on the evening

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Anonymous 6w

The sexual tension has been high so I had a feeling we were gonna fuck. But the fact that she told me she didn’t want to, I didn’t wanna feel like I was pressuring her for it at all. But like from the moment she walked in it was obvious what was gonna happen. I’m just confused as to why she said she didn’t wanna fuck, knowing she wanted to.

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Anonymous 6w

Sometimes i also like to be sexual without escalating to the final act yk? it’s still fun

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

A lesson I have learned is you can not say or refer to sex if you want to get laid with a chick most times. I think they think it's degrading or just they want the song and dance not just treating it like going the to gym or some shit

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

Very true. A lot of chicks don’t want you to act or talk like sex is a given or the main reason for the hang out.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

I 100% agree. I also don’t often get aroused enough to do anything, so I usually say I don’t want to do anything because I don’t want to disappoint my partner

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

100%

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

I agree but why say anything about it in the first place. When he starts making moves, just say you don’t want to do anything if you don’t want toZ

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

you might be someone’s who’d be cool about that but a lot of men aren’t, so women tend to plan in advance

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