this is exactly why i’m so scared to hookup bc im also a virgin and i know myself way too well i would get attached :(

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probably just dont hook up ngl, in my experience about half of my sexual partners have been hookups and it rarely ends well

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Save hookups for post virginity loss. Best way to lose ur v card is to someone u care abt like a gf/bf. Lots of ppl I know say they regret having a ons to lose their virginity.

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Lock in and lock him down so you the last one on the list

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vCard is overrated. If something is causing you anxiety and shit, you ask yourself a question, is this thing under my control? If yes ( which is the case here), you find a solution ( it can be walking away), if it’s not under your control, then you learn how to accept it and deal with living in those feelings/coping/whatever works for you. You are definitely here giving this guy and experience way more than it deserves. You are also giving it so much power to affect you.

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