Hookup Horror Stories on Yik Yak | So lame. I let a guy finger me and he accidentally came in his shorts and then started acting weird, wouldn’t let me touch him anymore. Next morning overheard him telling his friends in the cabin that I let him get at me. And he was a dick to me. Why?

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So lame. I let a guy finger me and he accidentally came in his shorts and then started acting weird, wouldn’t let me touch him anymore. Next morning overheard him telling his friends in the cabin that I let him get at me. And he was a dick to me. Why?

Hookup Horror Stories 4d

So we were hooking up and he was wearing a hat the whole time. Found that weird. We basically fell asleep and he woke up and realized his has was off, he had a huge bald spot, I didn’t mind but he started acting like a dick after realizing I saw it 👎

Anonymous 4d

It is called a self-fulfilling prophecy, the guy in this case, and in the case with the bald spot, assumed that you were going to be judgemental and rude about that flaw, making him mean to you, which then prompted you to be upset (rightfully) which confirmed in his head that he was right to assume you’d be rude

Anonymous 3d

Because he’s insecure.

Anonymous

#1 4d

Mmm. This is some good perspective. In the future if I notice this pattern I’m gonna be proactive somehow

Anonymous

OP 4d

It usually starts because someone gets made fun of a flaw in the past so they assume that other people, when put in similar scenarios, will humiliate them too. It’s a reflexive defense mechanism, a bit of understanding or comforting can usually assuage the insecurity and get them to calm down

Anonymous

#2 3d

If he had been honest we could’ve cleaned up and tried again

Anonymous

OP 3d

Yeah it’s honestly not that deep. I used to be embarrassed by finishing early bc I thought it was because of inexperience but it’s just because I find all kinds of sex really hot and it doesn’t have to be the end of anything.