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I have this sneaky link and we’ve hooked but more than a few times is it bad I want to do it without a condom just once with him??
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Anonymous 6w

Bro yes. Don’t take the risk for a hu + you both probably won’t want to go back to condoms after

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Anonymous 6w

Would you rather: 1: Let him spend around 10 dollars or so on condoms 2: Help him spend x amount of money for almost 2 decades if he slips up somehow? 🤷‍♂️

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Anonymous 6w

Apparently this is going to be a hot take but if you are both clean and don’t see other people til after I think it’s fine. Especially if you’re already exclusive. But you do need to be on some type of birth control unless you’re both willing to get pregnant and you should also get tested before

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Anonymous 6w

At the end of the day it’s OPs decision. Do what your little heart desires just be careful and what not. Your body your choice bbg.

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Anonymous 6w

bad is subjective and feelings are impossible to avoid so no, it is not bad that you have a feeling or desire. what IS bad is LETTING him do it and then having to deal with the consequences if they should arise. but i mean if you like this guy enough maybe that's not even "bad" either

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Anonymous 6w

DO NOT DO THAT

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Anonymous 6w

Guys I’m not actually going to do it😭

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Anonymous 6w

I’ve had the same sneaky link for 4 years and i only just now let him not use a condom but I’m on birth control and I trust him to pull out. We also aren’t hooking up with other people so there’s no risk of std or anything like that. just be aware of the risks and be careful if you do it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

That’s not even accounting for STI risk

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6w

That’s not ur sneaky link that’s ur boyfriend 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 6w

NO NEVER

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

if you understand the woman’s cycle you can know when it’s safe to do so and when it isn’t. There’s only a small period each month a woman is able to get pregnant and during the other time it’s an almost 0% chance. Knowing a woman’s cycle is ironically safer than just using a condom without a care in the world

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 6w

even if you aren’t on BC, as long as you know the woman’s menstrual cycle you can know when it’s unsafe to do so and when it’s safe to not use one. Knowing the cycle is safer than using a condom willy nilly to be honest

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 6w

Not every woman’s cycle is the same tho and they can always change as time goes on. You could be days away from your period and still get pregnant. Just as you could also get pregnant on your period. There’s no time (unless you have very low egg count or just are infertile) that the chances of getting pregnant are zero.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 6w

I wouldn’t play around with that. Stress, seasons, and so many other factors can change a woman’s cycle. And it doesn’t sound like they’re just using condoms Willy nilly

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6w

FOR 4 YEARS? GURL

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 6w

What’s your source for this? Fwik that method relies on a woman having a regular cycle, which many women don’t . And even if they do, a woman’s cycle can change at any time for no reason, so cycle tracking is a very unreliable method compared to condoms which is consistently effective and easier. Also what about STDs??? Cycle tracking does NOT stop you from catching an STD.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 6w

What’s your source on this?

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 6w

Wait let me explain he’s my child hood best friends cousin and when we started this we didn’t wanna piss her off but now we’re just in too deep to say anything because everybody thinks we’re just friends so like we’re quiet about it. (We are both fully aware that we will probably end up together)

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6w

I don’t know if that helped tbh but interesting nevertheless 😂

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 6w

I’m just living my best life lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 6w

This is entirely inaccurate. This is called natural family planning and even when done entirely correct or facilitated by medical devices the pregnancy occurrence rate is greater than that of typical contraceptives. Additionally, it is much more difficult for couples to do correctly without medical facilitation, and nearly impossible to use NFP for normal hookup-type situations.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6w

“Just fuck atp” ❌ ”just get into a relationship atp” ✅

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 6w

We will. Trust.

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