Apparently this is going to be a hot take but if you are both clean and don’t see other people til after I think it’s fine. Especially if you’re already exclusive. But you do need to be on some type of birth control unless you’re both willing to get pregnant and you should also get tested before
bad is subjective and feelings are impossible to avoid so no, it is not bad that you have a feeling or desire. what IS bad is LETTING him do it and then having to deal with the consequences if they should arise. but i mean if you like this guy enough maybe that's not even "bad" either
I’ve had the same sneaky link for 4 years and i only just now let him not use a condom but I’m on birth control and I trust him to pull out. We also aren’t hooking up with other people so there’s no risk of std or anything like that. just be aware of the risks and be careful if you do it.
if you understand the woman’s cycle you can know when it’s safe to do so and when it isn’t. There’s only a small period each month a woman is able to get pregnant and during the other time it’s an almost 0% chance. Knowing a woman’s cycle is ironically safer than just using a condom without a care in the world
Not every woman’s cycle is the same tho and they can always change as time goes on. You could be days away from your period and still get pregnant. Just as you could also get pregnant on your period. There’s no time (unless you have very low egg count or just are infertile) that the chances of getting pregnant are zero.
What’s your source for this? Fwik that method relies on a woman having a regular cycle, which many women don’t . And even if they do, a woman’s cycle can change at any time for no reason, so cycle tracking is a very unreliable method compared to condoms which is consistently effective and easier. Also what about STDs??? Cycle tracking does NOT stop you from catching an STD.
Wait let me explain he’s my child hood best friends cousin and when we started this we didn’t wanna piss her off but now we’re just in too deep to say anything because everybody thinks we’re just friends so like we’re quiet about it. (We are both fully aware that we will probably end up together)
This is entirely inaccurate. This is called natural family planning and even when done entirely correct or facilitated by medical devices the pregnancy occurrence rate is greater than that of typical contraceptives. Additionally, it is much more difficult for couples to do correctly without medical facilitation, and nearly impossible to use NFP for normal hookup-type situations.